You don't need to change who you are at all. [She smiles gently. In his own time, she doubts he'll ever get the chance to have such a ceremony.] It's representative of many things, but above all it means you'll be treated with respect as a man and not dismissed as a child.

[Oh, and you'll probably get drafted to go to war and all that fun jazz, but it's kind of moot out here, so...]