So? If you say "everyone's gone through it", it doesn't make it hurt any less that it happened to you. It's okay to make sure you know everyone's got it bad, but... that doesn't mean you don't have the right to be upset.
[he pauses.]
You remember how I mentioned that our medic is my brother?
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[he pauses.]
You remember how I mentioned that our medic is my brother?